so i went to petsmart yesterday and they tested my water and talked to me. So this was their conclusion.
1) When i change my water i take out to much, they say i should only take 20-30%
2)They say i should be changing the thing in my filter more, like once a month
3) He gave me a 'good bacteria' bottle to add to my aquarium and to use when i clean it.
I respectfully disagree with the advice being given to you by the store employees.
1) There is NO harm in taking out water constantly if you want to, as long as you are matching the temperature of the old and new water. The benefical bacteria does NOT reside in your water, it resides on the hard surfaces of the tank (tank walls, decor, gravel, plants, etc), plus the fliter media. If your readings of ammonia or nitrite are anything but zero, and nitrate is over 20, you need to change the water. If that means 75% every day, that's what it will take to keep your fish healthy.
2) If you choose to take the advice of the pet store employee to change the filter's pad every month, you will most likely throw your tank into a new cycle every month. A good portion of the beneficial bacteria resides in the filter's pad. If it is too 'dirty' and restricting the flow of water, just swish it out in the water you are removing during the water change.
3) The 'bacteria in a bottle' may or may not work to help establish the cycle in your tank. I personally have never used it so cannot say. There should be no reason to use anything at every water change except a dechlorinator if your water source uses chlorine.
You said the pet store tested your water. What are the readings of ammonia, nitrite and nitrate? Only by monitoring those reading will you know if your tank has completed the nitrogen cycle.
Personally, I think the sales people just want to sell filter pads and bacteria bottles.
Just my 2cents.
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