I Believe Rohnds meand that you shouldn't take your lfs's word for it anymore...believe he left a word out.
I would disagree with Rohnds on the not cleaning the gravel thing...with the exception of if you have an undergravel filter as your main filter then I might only do light gravel vacs while you're cycling, as that gravel is your filter media. In all other tanks where the filtration is a sponge or a power filter or a canister filter etc, the majority of your bacteria is wherever the oxygen and water flow is highest, meaning on your filter. There is SOME bacteria all over every porus surface in your tank (including the gravel and all of your decorations and plants etc), but NOT cleaning the tank would lead to pesky levels of nitrite hanging around after your tank would have otherwise dropped to 0.
Xanthochroid - ammolock can be helpful in an emergency and if you're not sure why you're having an ammonia spike etc. Just beware that it might give false positive readings after you use it. Due to the fact that you have ammonia, nitrite and nitrates already in your tank I would say you are very close to being completely cycled. I would keep up with those water changes as prescribed and try to keep the water quality as good as you can. As far as the top fin 60 for a 55 gallon tank...I'm not entirely sure, you might check to see if you can find a gph rating for it (gallons per hour) because for a 55 I'd think you'd want to be sure its at least 500 gph if not more.