well update on the babies, they are all doing just great, thy are now eating finly crushed flake food, and some bbs, they seem to really enjoy it and the parents still are doing a great job watching over the babies., im so paranoid when i do water changes, because i use a plastic cup and a 2qt pitcher to do the water changes and i get worried im gonna suck up a baby or 2 in the cup, so i examine it very thouroghly before i put the water down the drain.
on another point, i have decided to get rid of the jewels and go for some less agressive chiclids, i found a LFS that will take babies and parents for store credit so i may be in good luck, its not the best of fish stores and i have to watch the quality of fish they have last time i went in they had ich in almost all the tanks but other times they have very clean and healthy loking tanks. and they also do custom orders and have the biggest selection of fish around.