Thanks everyone...my mom think's I'm a suck cuz I am sooo concerned about the wellbeing of all animals...and I really do hate to see them suffer...I don't want to put Grover down (don't ask hehehe...) but I might have to eventually. The though of them freezing to death or even the brief pain of having their heads cut of or crushed is more than I can handle...I don;t think I could do it to be honest, but if I could just put him to sleep peacefully...that would be great!! I have had a few fish die already, I know it happens, you wake up in the morning & they're wrapped around the intake tube of your filter... but if I can make it as painless as possible, that's what I want to do. Thank you Supahtim, I really wish more people thought this way too. I mean fish are living, breathing creatures that deserve as much respect and care that people do in my opinion.
Quagarr...thanks for the info about the clove oil, I will definatly do that if I have to...I love this site if for nothing else but the support you get from the other members here!! Thank you everyone!!