Fishy, I'm not being rude. Indignant, yes. Rude, no.
But not indignant about the topic, indignant about the way you somewhat misquoted me at first response, then at second response you say that I "tortured" my female betta. That is what made me indignant. I get indignant when someone doesn't read and fully comprehend what I take the time to write. It's disrespectful. I share my experiences, and because those experiences seem to yield data that is against the assumed knowledge, you make it out like I'm telling newbies to go ahead and try something even though my posts are full of disclaimers insisting that they don't go and try it without experience? Then you paint me out to be something that I am not - a torturer of fish. There is a difference between presenting a conflicting opinion of something, and misrepresenting what someone has stated and/or criticizing them as a person.
You used both misrepresentation, and harsh criticism on me for practicing something that I know to be largely safe from much experience. On top of that you make it out like I'm giving a newbie some sort of bad advice just because I'm telling them my experienced opinion about something. As if I'm supposed to be keeping information from them and treating them like a child when adults are talking about "adult" things. That sort of behavior is dishonest and I feel strongly that this is a place for honest, open information sharing.
And none of my posts until this one are off topic, so I don't feel I need to give anything "a rest." We are talking about whether gouramis and bettas can get on together. Everyone else is continuing to post on this topic, and I'm merely encouraging more people to come out with their betta/gourami stories, and sharing what I know about the subject. I'm sorry if you said something earlier in the thread that I know to be largely untrue and I posted my conflicting position. That is the purpose of forums, debates and dialogue. It furthers the knowledge base for everyone if they have access to all of the information. Sorry I want to encourage that dialogue to support my position in the hopes that what I know to be true will eventually be viewed as true. That's how science works. You made a blanket statement that I know isn't true, and I called it as I saw it. It's not rude. And it sprouted further dialogue. Therefore if you ask me, it's serving its purpose to help us all out. I'll "give it a rest" when it's no longer yielding further information from people on the board. Which it still is.