Ok so I am on the right track. Aquarium is cycled and fish are great. I was doing my 25% weekly water change this evening and noticed that the filter looked pretty gunky. I don't know the technical terms so bear with me. The filter is 2 parts. The black holey "thing1" is in the front and the second part is this gray "thing2" that feels like it may have some rocks in it. Anyway I took it out and thing2 felt really slimy. Didn't stink or anything. So I decided to wash it. I took a gallon of water and dechlorinated it and swished thing2 around in it getting all the gunk off. Was I supposed to do that or did I just really mess stuff up again? DO I need to change these filters, wash them, etc? I have never thought about this before until I noticed it looked pretty gross today. Thanks for all your help and I assure you I am not as dumb as I sound, I just don't know proper names for stuff yet. Learning though.