I appreciate all the suggestions, I know with the nitrates so low people must think I haven't cycled the tank but trust me it is cycled. Biggest issue I was having was the nitrates for the longest time and with being in farm country and well water I was getting trace nitrates, still do, in my well water so doing water changes helped but not as much as you would think. My nitrates were hanging at the red line for the longest time. I have that under control now and with only 1 fish in a 50 gallon tank, that now has a good substrate and plants, I would be amazed if the nitrates are anything above trace to 5ppm. It is my GH and pH that concern me now, and of the 2 my GH is I think more my issue but can only sort of assess it by doing pH tests. I have never seen a GH test kit in stores anywhere, and I guess I am trying to address them because I would like to breed any fish I get again. I used to breed fish when I lived in Western Mass and sell to a LFS there before it went out of business. Hence why I am concerned about the GH and pH, since I know my LFS would take any fish I manage to breed. I realize I sound like a beginner all over again, but I just can't seem to get this all under control at the same time and it is frustrating when I had no issues in Massachusetts, heck barely did water changes there because it was a very well balanced tank and stable with plantings etc.