well, i did it.. today i went out to my LFS and after eyeing up the perfect betta (about 100+ bettas) i picked out the perfect one i went by temperment, and beauty (tempermint being the #1 thing) i saw alot of beautiful bettas but would flare up at the other fish, till finally i found Provolone, my new betta... hes actually the biggest wimp i have ever seen, he is terrified of my male guppies that come up to him to check him out, so he darts behind my drifwood to hide, i havent seen him flare up yet! i gave him the test at the store,i was putting his cup agenst the other bettas cups and he would turn away, or stare back without showing ANY aggression! (while the other bettas where going nuts looking at him) I hope he will stay this way! hes looks pretty young also i will get pics of him on here ASAP.. i just dont want to turn on my tank light a freak him out anymore... he is shiney blue, but his two things that hang down in the front ( i dont know what there called) are red Provolone is so cute ill let you guys posted on how my betta/guppy/neon tetra mix is going...