I just got my 2 ADF's Sunday (1 male/1 female.) The female is out and about playing dead near the surface of the water while the male i've seen once since Sunday when he went up for some air and divebombed back into the driftwood cave I have. I looked at the guide by leopardess (great guide btw) and I couldn't figure out how often to feed the ADF's. Also, I tried the turkey baster and tweezer method for feeding on the female with no luck. I have tried HBH frog and tadpole bites as well as freeze dried bloodworms i've soaked for a bit. How else can I get her to try and eat and what about the male who doesn't seem like he wants to come out? I know it's only been a few days, but better to figure out things now than later.