A quick note with regards to feeding.
For a growing oscar, I would not recommend anything less than 3 feedings of quality pellets per day. Triton usually gets anywhere from 3-5 feedings daily. I did not come up with this guideline myself---it is based on the info. over at oscarfish.com. If your oscar is already in the 8-10" range, I'd scale it back to 1-2 feedings per day. For larger, fully-grown oscars, this can be limited to 1 a day or even every other day.
JJDoyle2004 said:
the day of change they are at 5, the next day 10 and so on, if I wait a week they are 40 or more
But wait a minute...you said your baseline level (i.e. from your tapwater) of nitrAtes was already 10 PPM, correct? So how is it that your tank's nitrAte level could be only at 5 PPM after a water-change?
Anyway, from what you're describing it sounds like nitrAtes go up by 5 PPM each day. Keeping them below 10 PPM won't be feasible unless you are doing water changes about every other day, which is unrealistic for most people over the long-haul. So rather than set your goal at 10 PPM, you could keep nitrAtes at or below 20 PPM by doing two weekly water changes. That would be my recommendation. I am not positive, but if I recall correctly Kmuda over on oscarfish has maintained that long-term damage to the fish begins when they are constantly subjected to a level of 21 PPM nitrAtes, with more significant damage at 40 PPM. Of course he describes it much better than I can. Once you've checked out his advice over on oscarfish and learn more about his background, you'll see why I'm referencing him here.
I'm sure I've seen you on cichlid-forum or oscarfish forum, right?
If you haven't checked out oscarfish.com, then I highly recommending taking a look. Folks will tell you (and I agree) to move the pleco because the oscar alone creates more than enough bioload for a tank that size, but it's for the best. There's a reason for this recommendation, and you're already finding out why.
How big is De La Hoya now?
You should post some pics for us in the oscar photo thread over in the cichlid section of the forum.
BV