i am so glad i joined this chat because you have answered questions for me that have been conflicting in books. i know you have not answered alot of my personal questions because i have not had to post them considering alot of then were already asked! Thanks!!! My husband is still having a hard time accepting to disconnect the air stones but i am working on it! lol. but another question i have is i have an anemone that is about 1 in big and he seems to be doing ok but how fast will he grow?.. my other 2 i have bought are about 5 inches and seem to do ok as well but the one has not grown and we have had him for about 6 months!... is he possibly just ill or is he just going to stay little?