I like all of the ideas a lot. This is making it tough.
When I look at my tank, it seems that the bottom is the most empty. The SAE is all over the place, and the Angel and cherry barbs tend to stay in the upper third. So that seems to somewhat eliminate the hatchet fish.
If I went with a trio (could I do four?) of corys, are there any particular corys I should avoid, or could I just pretty much pick any of the species that have the colors I like?
The rams will stay more to towards the bottom correct? My angel is somewhat territorial. It likes to chase, but never seems to catch the cherry barbs, and it never does damage to any of them. Would they get along with the angel, or at least be able to keep away?
I try so hard to keep snails out of my planted tank that I have really grown to dislike them. I couldn't bring myself to intentionally stock a snail.
And finally, yes, I am not a girl.