Hey man, I'm fairly new to this forum, and as of yet I haven't received bunk/garbage info, I sometimes get advice I don't wanna hear, but thats the way it goes, I don't know everything.
If you don't want to heed the advice given, don't, thats cool...But posting threads just to be rude/mean, whatever is a waste of yours and everyones elses time, there's just no need for it.
If your uncomfortable with the advice givien, I'd say take a look around for some people with experience with Cichlids (There is more than one in this forum), and PM them personally, Just a suggestion.