I just feel i have to not even tell anyone my stocking to get a nice response. The fact of the matter was, the fish weren't suffering UNTIL i left. I kept up with my 75% water change per week (25% every 2 days and a 10% extra on the 7th) and i also fed correctly and i do a gravel vacume weekly. When i got home, there was SO much uneaten food, at least 15 betta pellets (even if Ferdnan didnt eat at all, there should have been 4 uneate pellets at the most) and there was slimy strands all over the bottom coming off piles of uneaten shrimp pellets and there we're 3 dead kuhli loach's, that had been dead for at least 12-14 hours as they had went stiff and we're begining to turn white. If i overstock a tank, i make sure i care for it the way it should be.so i dont find it fair that just because the fish died because i wasnt here to do a water change and my uncle overfed that you guys call me a bad fish keeper again, you just assumed i never do anything, now, i understand i still need my testkit, and il get one when i get the money, but as of right now, all i can get is a strip tester if it'l ease you guys off a bit, i dont want to have to leave but it makes me feel horrible when you guys tell me off like this when i been doing all i can atm to care for my fishes. If it we're up to me, id have 4 55 gallon tanks and who knows what else, if i had the money. Im sorry i blew up...again! and OC, your private message thing, added to this, i feel you dont consider me a friend anymore, im more of just some dumb bad fish keeping kid. I hope this don't scare everyone away again.