Hubby wanted a male also, so Farley will be the male's name when we find a male. The males we've seen at several other stores are other species. If we ever find a male/female in the same store of whatever species of Farlowella, we'll get the pair, and move Ella to another tank.
A LFS that specializes in cichlids should start shipping in from South America soon and when they get in any Farlowellas we'll go look.
We have a male cat name Harley too! Ha!