I hear what you're saying, Orion. But, this whole experience really does turn me off. Buying on-line always seemed like such a sketchy proposition in the first place. I always just figured that it's easier and better for the fish if you can find them at a LFS and bring them home from there.
But, what you wrote occurred to me, too: even the LFS of the world need their fish shipped to them. So, maybe I'll reconsider. Still, I prefer seeing what I'm buying before I pay.
Now now, I totally agree. I think most anyone would agree that we would rather see the fish we are buying before we buy them. But in Alters case, he couldn't find these fish close to him, so he had two choices. Do without, or get them shipped. I've chosen both before, and sometimes, each choice sucked. (we always want what we can't have)
Think of it this way: When you were 14, and you've never driven before, and you saw your first car accident. Would you let that one incident put you off of driving because of some unknown circumstances that YOU didn't know about? Sure, accidents happen and people wreck, but for the amount of people (much less the idiots) on the road it's amazing much more wrecks don't occur. Same thing with shipping fish in a manner of speaking. It's all a calculated risk. And no, it's not for all people, and I'm not trying to say that it is. Hell, it's rather pricey for one thing. I just don't want people to totally make up their mind based upon Alters unfortunate experiences. And his isn't the only shipping mishap that's ever happened, but for every one that goes wrong, I'm sure that there are hundreds (if not much more) that go perfect.